Who says we cannot do it all? We become so unfair to ourselves most of the time.We are our own enemy,we are filled with so much negativity and we have come to a point of believing that nothing good comes out of us. I spent most of my life hiding in a shell because I had not known the value in me.The worst thing a person can do to oneself is to compare themselves with others. I often viewed other people as much better. It took the intervention of God and my friends to get me out of this dangerous zone though I was a hard nut to crack. I came to a point of realizing the potential that lay in me.
I am writing this for the people who are faced with the similar situation. Life can be so empty, purposeless and without meaning when people fail to discover the value in them. Such people always walk around in despair and frustration, they hurt inside and this can have a damaging effect on the individual. If you are in such a situation, worry not, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
The first step is that of self evaluation. This entails knowing oneself, your strengths and weaknesses, fears and confidence. Major in your stenghths and shine in them . Go ahead and face your fears, this requires one to get out of their comfort zones and do that which they neither want nor think they can do. Have a positive attitude and be optimistic, never quit just hold on even when there seems to be no hope.
As you endevour to do this, surround yourself with people who are positive. Avoid people with negativity and non supporting parties because not everyone has your best interest at heart.Where there is a will there is a way, this is very true. You can do anyhthing that you desire. The big question is, what do you want? What would you want to accomplish in this life? Once you have established it, go ahead and do it, never hesitate. It is very true that our ability to become successful is directly propotional to the amount of insecurities that we are willing to take and how willing we are to face our fears. Let fear not be a hinderance towards achieving our goals but let it be a motivating factor that steers us forward until we realize our success.
We are like butterflies in this life, it is so hard to believe that the beautiful butterfly evolved from the ugly caterpilla.We also have the potential to evolve from grass to grace and become the source of envy and admiration from everybody.You can conquer your fears and limitations.The process is however long and it requires persistence, tolerance and determination.
One ought to be self driven and believe in themselves that they can conquer that which they want to.
I hope that after reading this article you will see the light and be willing to take the risk to sail towards your goal, vision, desire and dreams. Remember that each individual can either make or break their life. So make the corrrect choices.