With increased women empowerment all over the world, men appear to be losing it at the dawn of each day. The number of increased ‘CHAMAS’ makes it even harder for men.
‘EQUALITY’ it’s what women have been fighting for the past years and is even getting vibrant. But can this really be achieved or it’s just a project to bring ‘MAN’ down? May be we talk about ‘EQUITY’ and make some sense from there. Taking a look at some of the cases, it’s a fact that the number of women CEOs or from that fact, women are taking up higher jobs. This is not an excuse to look down on any of them or mention that they can do without men. Remember that what a woman can do, a man has done it before.
But what do I say if this is going overboard? Men now find themselves on the receiving end in some parts of the country. Very clear that if she received the beating before, she’ll do it better against her husband by leaving scars all over the body. In other parts, so encouraged from this 1st incident, get to the men’s drinking points and get them from the table of men.
We know men can be burly and quite incentive but a woman should be a blessing because this is what God says to women.
Do not ever try to fix HIM if he develops a fault because am his manufacturer. You are his wife not his god. I don’t particularly accept when you think you can change him and you attempt to take my place .
Well, I am your God two, but your husband is my deputy in life. To get best out of him you need to respect him.
He may fumble and in many things and you realise it and you may be too smart but resist the urge to get in front of him and take charge of things except when he tells you to.
Remember a MAN can be a man of God but still a man. A hungry man is an angry man whether the hunger is for food or sex. Don’t ever play politics with him on these issues.
HE also likes competing and winning that’s why he likes sports, but there is an area he doesn’t mind being better which is character! So take advantage and be a better lover more, humble, more patient, more virtuous!
Lastly, HE enjoys attractive helpmate, quite more than is good for him, As you get to helping him, don’t forget to stay attractive as possible. It’s a task but after all I know you can do it since you are a woman.
Gold is all that glitters in a man.
First year Communications and Journalism student